The Hidden Gift of Boredom
From the newspaper obsession of the 19th and 20th centuries to our current doomscrolling craze, it’s clear that the desire for instant gratification is not a new phenomenon. A question that stands out for this generation is: “When was the last time you were bored without reaching for your phone or computer?” In those moments, when the brain is not engaged, it might be in what I call a ‘creatide’—a blend of creativity and reside. This is the natural and productive state the mind was meant to inhabit.
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The human mind is capable of remarkable things, so much so that some evidence suggests that being alone with it can be threatening. Thomas D. Wilson’s study, “The challenges of the disengaged mind,” highlights the human urge to be constantly stimulated. In one experiment, 18 male participants were given the choice to administer mild electric shocks to themselves rather than sit alone with their thoughts. Remarkably, 12 chose to shock themselves, with one participant delivering 190 shocks during a session. This shows that even unpleasant stimulation is preferable to boredom.
As you reflect on this study, consider: What makes boredom so unbearable? Psychologists and philosophers have debated this for years. Not everyone experiences boredom the same way. Some people are sensation-seekers who thrive on stimulation and novelty, while others find low stimulation intolerable.
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To understand boredom better, let’s look at its definition. Eastwood, Frischen, Fenske, and Smilek described it as a mismatch between our need for stimulation and what the environment offers. They defined it as “the aversive state of wanting but being unable to engage in satisfying activity.” Boredom is like a playground you’re alone in, but you’d rather do anything else—like using gadgets or engaging in other stimulating activities.
Just as playing has benefits for children, thinking and exploring the mind can lead to long-term gains. I believe that the more you do something, the better you get. Perhaps the reason people think genius is innate is because they forget how much practice and persistence can train the mind.
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Boredom has a bad reputation not because everyone experiences it, but because those who do often don’t dwell in it long enough to see its benefits. A study by Mann and Cadman in 2014 found that participants doing a boring task later generated more creative ideas than those engaged in stimulating activities. When the mind isn’t engaged, it can wander, explore new thoughts, and reach conclusions it never would have otherwise.
How do you know if a child is artistically gifted if you’ve never given them a paintbrush? Similarly, how can you realize your mind’s potential if you’ve never given it a chance to prove itself? Before dismissing your own genius, ask whether you’ve ever allowed your mind to show you what it can do.
An example of this is Albert Einstein. In his early years, he worked as a patent clerk in Bern, where he often had long, monotonous days. During these times, he daydreamed about thought experiments, such as what it would be like to ride alongside a beam of light, which led to his theory of relativity. Biographers and historians note that this period of mind-wandering and boredom was not wasted time but a fertile ground for his most famous theories.
Who knew that one of the greatest scientific minds of all time was not born but nurtured? Nurtured in an unstimulated, weightless, and detached environment.
Many have viewed boredom as a prison or cage, as it leaves you in a place you don’t want to be alone. Ever notice how you can be fine scrolling through your phone, reading a book, or doing something else, but the moment those things are taken away, being alone feels uncomfortable? It’s not because you’re too extroverted or dislike being alone. Even people who enjoy solitude face this. The real issue is that your brain is always seeking stimulation. Take away the input, and you’re left facing its restless need for something to do.
Perhaps your thoughts are already forming the question: “So how do I break out of this cycle of constant stimulation?” Stimulation is a natural human urge, not a deep hole you can’t climb out of. If boredom is now seen as a hidden gift, how can we embrace it instead of avoid it?
Rest assured, it doesn’t mean sitting and staring at the wall for hours. No one said boredom must feel like solitary confinement. It can be as simple as taking a walk without music, leaving your phone behind while waiting in line, or spending a few minutes staring out the window and noticing details you normally ignore. Even small device-free pauses while doing chores, doodling in a notebook, or letting your thoughts drift can open unexpected doors in your mind.
These quiet gaps allow imagination to breathe and reveal itself to you. In a world that pushes us to be faster, busier, and endlessly entertained, boredom may seem inconvenient. But stepping back, we see it’s anything but wasted time. Boredom gives the mind space to wander, connect ideas, and uncover sparks of creativity we might miss in constant stimulation.
Choosing to embrace it, even in small moments, reminds us that our minds are capable of more than just scrolling or distraction. If we allow ourselves the courage to sit with stillness, we will realize that boredom is not a weakness to escape, but a strength to nurture.
